本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I almost laughed to tears when my friend told me this story.
She was just back from a workshop. At the workshop there was a man who declared at the very beginning that he came from HongKong. He implied to everyone that he was not from China Mainland. During the workshop, he kept complaining. The living expense was so high. The commuting fee was expensive. And worst of all, he had no good friends here. The conductor agreed at first, “yes, it is hard to find an indeed friend, wherever you are in HongKong or in Toronto. But,” he suggested, “you may begin your friend hunting from today among all the people present here.” “These guys?” the HongKong man shrugged off. The conductor surprised, “ then how do you define a good friend?” he answered, “ I think he can at least help me find a job.” Then everyone there kept silent.
My friend’s comment is “what a naive man!” I don’t mean to criticize. There is no absolute right or wrong of one’s thinking. But I really think that man is funny. As far as I see, a friend is someone who can share your happiness or unhappiness instead of someone who can offer you a job. Life owes no one a living. Most of the time, we should try our own best to acquire our own happiness.
Following that man’s thinking I want to have a best friend too. A friend who can offer me a desirable job with good salary. Hehe更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
She was just back from a workshop. At the workshop there was a man who declared at the very beginning that he came from HongKong. He implied to everyone that he was not from China Mainland. During the workshop, he kept complaining. The living expense was so high. The commuting fee was expensive. And worst of all, he had no good friends here. The conductor agreed at first, “yes, it is hard to find an indeed friend, wherever you are in HongKong or in Toronto. But,” he suggested, “you may begin your friend hunting from today among all the people present here.” “These guys?” the HongKong man shrugged off. The conductor surprised, “ then how do you define a good friend?” he answered, “ I think he can at least help me find a job.” Then everyone there kept silent.
My friend’s comment is “what a naive man!” I don’t mean to criticize. There is no absolute right or wrong of one’s thinking. But I really think that man is funny. As far as I see, a friend is someone who can share your happiness or unhappiness instead of someone who can offer you a job. Life owes no one a living. Most of the time, we should try our own best to acquire our own happiness.
Following that man’s thinking I want to have a best friend too. A friend who can offer me a desirable job with good salary. Hehe更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net