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漏掉的那20 分钟对故事的理解可能很重要,因为这20 分钟会讲述一对青年男女怎么fall in love, believe that they are special.......till they got married with kids, and the love turns sour. ...

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛我个人的感觉,趋向于这个评论。

Love, it's a curious thing. When it's fresh it is new, it is exciting and you wake up every morning just aching to spend another day with the person you love. Then you get married, have kids perhaps and things change. You fight. You fight over NOTHING. You grow to loathe the person you used to love to wake up next to. The world closes in on you and things don't seem the same anymore. You daydream about what life used to be like, how much love you used to be in and ask yourself - what happened??? Frank and April Wheeler meet and fall in love at a party. They talk about how their lives are going to be extraordinary and they are going to be different. They are going to live in Paris. They are never going to be "those people" in the suburbs. That isn't what life has in store for them. However life happens, April gets pregnant and they have to settle for a life more ordinary than they had planned for with the promise that someday, they will return to their dreams and complete them.

The Wheeler's dreams do not ever become reality and as the bleak expanse of life stretches out ahead of April she decides to reach out for her personal brass ring and convince Frank that they are better than their home on Revolutionary Road and Frank's job with his father's company and are meant for the greatness that they once talked about having in Paris. April quickly begins to hope again that not only will her life change to what it should have been but that her and Frank will fall back in love again. Frank falls in love with the idea and agrees to go, but has reservations about leaving the job he hates but that gives him a purpose in life. The plans are only a temporary band-aid as their glass house of dreams tumble around them and become a shattered illusion of what it used to be.

This movie is not one that you will send your entire family to see - or even your good friends. It isn't one that everyone will get or even WANT to get. However, this movie will tear out the heart of the people that have been in a relationship that has gone sour and were powerless to stop it. You try everything to stop the inevitable train wreck you see coming but yet, it still ends in a fiery crash and you stand and wonder how your life could end up this way. That's Frank and April and you will come to love and hate them by the end of this movie.

The acting in this movie is beyond amazing because it's simple and not overdone by the lead actors. Many things are not ever said - nor needed to be said - and were played with a flick of emotion across the face. I watched this movie expecting Kate to be the one to blow me away as usual and was shocked when it was Leo that knocked my socks off. I felt little sympathy for Frank in the novel but in the movie he plays him so well you can't help but feel sorry for him. I must mention that the supporting roles in this movie are nothing to sneeze at as well.

If you are looking for a wholesome family movie that will melt your heart, this isn't it. However, if you are willing to deal with a bit of stark reality - this is the movie for you. It rocked me harder than American Beauty ever did.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下拾英 / 心情随笔 / 白天不懂夜的黑
    白天不懂夜的黑


    看电影没要钱,趴车没要钱,连吃饭都没要钱,本该喜得合不拢嘴,从《REVOLUTIONARY ROAD》黑暗中出来,满脑子只有一句话:男人永远不懂女人。

    之前看过剧情介绍,心里想着看看老外的家庭冲突是怎么发生的,嘴上说的却是看看这个无比激动的小温是如何演电影的。BS自己,心口不一,装高雅。
    因为去得晚,得以大摇大摆溜进放映厅,也错过了20分钟的恩爱和美的场面,一进去看到的就是两个人商量着要MOVING TO PARIS。小温准备去那边找做
    秘书的工作,小卡准备去读书,妻子SUPPORT丈夫。和朋友夫妻讲起的时候,很让两人吃惊和费解。更让我费解的是,朋友妻子听这个消息为什么会哭?为什么
    会SO RELEASED?看情形她好象是高兴的样。幸好她的HUSBAND也和我一样,搞不懂,莫非这个妻子第6感,早知道她的HUSBAND以后会和小温来那么一下?


    面对一个MILLION DOLLAR的机会,一个LIFETIME CHANCE,哪个男人会不动心?只是,动心的理由,说出来的都是“为家庭赚钱,一如每天10个小时的工作,
    做着毫不喜欢的事情”。没有说出来的呢?可是小温这个时候是不需要这个的,便是NOTHING。

    女人的雷达真是TMD太HIGH-TECH了,男人的一点点心动,还只是一个OPTION,也躲不过女人的眼睛和耳朵。男人除了下水COOL DOWN外,毫无招架。
    坏事总是一起来的,又突然知道小温的怀孕,而且隐瞒12周,计划外的,没办法,来就来吧。可恨的是,又跑出来一个大概是应该用来避孕的设备没有使用,
    让怀孕这个事成了一个蓄意的阴谋。事情就是这么糟糕。当小温咬牙切齿地问小卡:“DO YOU REALLY WANT THIS CHILD”,我就知道,小卡要开讲道理了,
    准错。没办法,男人就是男人,再提高情商都没用,大智真的若愚啊。

    但是,小卡还是爱小温的。当小卡向小温告白,我尽管以前有和几个女的有F经历,却没有真正爱她们,意思是说我真爱的是你,小温。时间不对啊,小温刚在情绪
    极度苦闷的情况下,无爱而性了一把,你这么对我说,难道你知道了?难道你需要看到我表现嫉妒来表示我爱你吗?我就是这个意思,你怎么那么平静呢?
    咳,男女的密码系统,岂是“沟通”两个字就能解决的?

    乒乒乓乓,瓶哭罐嚎,摔椅砸墙的恨,通过逼真的音响,直雷我的耳膜和心脏。一个失手,不会把小温给杀了吧?或者流产?小温只有尖叫,只有逃。同样的故事,
    每天都在上演。生活咋这么累?

    狂暴之后,平静一夜,天亮了,生活还是要继续。男人仍如计划好的一样去签那个MILLION OFFER,女人却已下决心说再见。只是让男人看到的,却是那么的贤惠,
    那么温婉的GOOD MORNING,那么贴心的问水果汁怎么做,甚至那么关心的问将要去的工作内容是什么。男人还兴致勃勃讲哪个比500还棒的计算机时,女人却已经没
    法听得进去。小卡啊,小卡,你为什么在这个时候不停下来?女人的假,你这么聪明的人,怎么就看出来?女人,你为什么那么心死?贤妻目送小卡上班,回到厨房收拾碟子
    盘子,忍了很久的眼泪,轰然而出,一如那开着的水龙头,止都止不住。悲剧就要发生,可怜的男人去接受一个MILLION OFFER。为家庭?为自己?还是为爱情?
    幸好错过了前面20分钟的美好场面,否则,我也不知道会不会当场来个稀呖哗啦,纵然是很损我男人的面子。

    出路在哪?出路在哪?也许可以象片尾那个老头一样,把助听器的音量调到没有,任你任何喋喋不休,我总听不到。如果助听器还可以播李伯清,也许更妙,假如
    是我来导的话。

    女人的密码难懂,男人的也不简单。白天永远不懂夜的黑。门在开着的时候,好好享受,否则,门关了,除了说“芝麻开门”外,只有看天意了。

    电影是生活,生活是电影。还是回到那个高雅的理由吧。小温演得真好,象极了,真该得奖。小卡还是SG,人见人爱,花见花开,就是OVER ACTING,很冲击,
    很抓人,过了,很遗憾,得不了奖。辛苦了,谢谢!

    • 哎呀,喜欢这样的落笔呀.
    • 不错,有时间去看看~~
    • 漏掉的那20 分钟对故事的理解可能很重要,因为这20 分钟会讲述一对青年男女怎么fall in love, believe that they are special.......till they got married with kids, and the love turns sour. ...
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛我个人的感觉,趋向于这个评论。

      Love, it's a curious thing. When it's fresh it is new, it is exciting and you wake up every morning just aching to spend another day with the person you love. Then you get married, have kids perhaps and things change. You fight. You fight over NOTHING. You grow to loathe the person you used to love to wake up next to. The world closes in on you and things don't seem the same anymore. You daydream about what life used to be like, how much love you used to be in and ask yourself - what happened??? Frank and April Wheeler meet and fall in love at a party. They talk about how their lives are going to be extraordinary and they are going to be different. They are going to live in Paris. They are never going to be "those people" in the suburbs. That isn't what life has in store for them. However life happens, April gets pregnant and they have to settle for a life more ordinary than they had planned for with the promise that someday, they will return to their dreams and complete them.

      The Wheeler's dreams do not ever become reality and as the bleak expanse of life stretches out ahead of April she decides to reach out for her personal brass ring and convince Frank that they are better than their home on Revolutionary Road and Frank's job with his father's company and are meant for the greatness that they once talked about having in Paris. April quickly begins to hope again that not only will her life change to what it should have been but that her and Frank will fall back in love again. Frank falls in love with the idea and agrees to go, but has reservations about leaving the job he hates but that gives him a purpose in life. The plans are only a temporary band-aid as their glass house of dreams tumble around them and become a shattered illusion of what it used to be.

      This movie is not one that you will send your entire family to see - or even your good friends. It isn't one that everyone will get or even WANT to get. However, this movie will tear out the heart of the people that have been in a relationship that has gone sour and were powerless to stop it. You try everything to stop the inevitable train wreck you see coming but yet, it still ends in a fiery crash and you stand and wonder how your life could end up this way. That's Frank and April and you will come to love and hate them by the end of this movie.

      The acting in this movie is beyond amazing because it's simple and not overdone by the lead actors. Many things are not ever said - nor needed to be said - and were played with a flick of emotion across the face. I watched this movie expecting Kate to be the one to blow me away as usual and was shocked when it was Leo that knocked my socks off. I felt little sympathy for Frank in the novel but in the movie he plays him so well you can't help but feel sorry for him. I must mention that the supporting roles in this movie are nothing to sneeze at as well.

      If you are looking for a wholesome family movie that will melt your heart, this isn't it. However, if you are willing to deal with a bit of stark reality - this is the movie for you. It rocked me harder than American Beauty ever did.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 顶!这样写很抓人,看了很冲击,不看很遗憾。辛苦了,谢谢!
    • 你说话是为了让人明白,而有些人写字是为了让人糊涂
    • 写得有趣。不过关于那个设备。
      那应该是从地下医生那里拿的非法堕胎东东,长久以来堕胎在美国都是非法的。。。。你应该看一下有一部电影叫<abortion>, Demmi More, Cher 都在里面。
      • 你是对的, 这个设备最后还用上了. 明白了为什么小温不告诉小卡怀孕的事? 想自己弄掉. SEX的后果这么可怕, 这个片子实在是应该定为"未婚不宜".
        • 7. lol.