Topic: A woman suffering from abuse from her husband, as a foreigner, no residence permit, no phone, no car looking for your help!!! @拉斯维加斯华人论坛:拉斯维加斯枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Las Vegas

枫下茶话 / 法律 / A woman suffering from abuse from her husband, as a foreigner, no residence permit, no phone, no car looking for your help!!! -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-6 {797} (#3362362@0)

your english is good, anyway try to talk to him and find your own job or school -hunhun(混混); 2006-12-7 (#3364816@0)
尽快和华资处联系，他们那里有个受虐妇女保护的组织。 -tw200501(东方之子); 2006-12-8 (#3365512@0)

楼上的建议都是对的。不过，揣测你帖子中的意思，你的最大问题不是受虐待和离婚，而是想拿个身分留下来。通常留下来有四条路：上学、技术或投资移民、政治避难、离婚后再婚。哪种适合你，你帖子里说得不够详细，没法为你挑。 -rollor(Rollor); 2006-12-8 (#3366106@0)

Well, thank you all for the above suggestion and comments, don't you feel the life here is too boring yet hectic? I really miss HOME..... -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-8 {1052} (#3366483@0)

From your post, you do not seem was abused. To me, you seem to be picky and trouble maker. Sorry, no offensive, just my feeling, wish you well either way, good luck -barter_gta(Barter); 2006-12-8 (#3366536@0)

I am picky in certain way, but with my husband, You can't imagine how much I sacrificed myself... -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-8 {1682} (#3366652@0)

都比窦娥还冤, as you are young and beautiful, 嫁的是老外吧? 要不再找个老外嫁了, 就一步到位了. -001isbetter(001-is-better); 2006-12-8 (#3366681@0)

Jia de bu shi lao wai ya, shi jia ji hua ren, :(( -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-8 (#3366712@0)

How couldn't you find a decent job? Your English is impressive. -gthm(愿闻其详); 2006-12-8 (#3366718@0)

外语专业的? 条件真好, 年轻, 漂亮, 能挣, 爱花, 见过世面, 向往浪漫生活, 大家还不帮帮人家离婚? -coolmao(酷猫); 2006-12-8 (#3366689@0)

真的abuse, 打个911就能离婚了. 再说楼主的英文那么好, 长得又漂亮, 警察, 法官不听她的听谁的? -001isbetter(001-is-better); 2006-12-8 (#3366725@0)

你爱他,为什么不能理解他?感觉你来以前知道他离婚的事,既然爱他决定和他结婚,决定和他共同生活,何必要和他儿子争这些?他结婚前的财产让他自己去处理好了.你有能力经济独立.好好过日子,挑这些争端干什么? -hhorse(hhorse); 2006-12-8 (#3366738@0)

Are you really thinking I want his property? The fact is that he didn't treat me as a legal wife, it's more like a common law partner...... -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-8 {718} (#3366830@0)

You claim that he doesn't trust you at all, then I don't understand why you would sacrifice so much to marry a man like this? He cheated you before? You married him because you loved him. What did U love about him?Just feel somthing strange in your story. Noboday here knows what actually happened between you. If he was good enought to make you love him so much that you gave up everything to marry him, there must be some misunderstanding after you came. If you don't want anything from him except respect that you deserve, as you said here, talk to him seriously and heartfully. Let him know what is important to you. -hhorse(hhorse); 2006-12-10 {407} (#3369455@0)

Well, although I don't like the way you talk about marrieage and wedding, I don't like the way your husband behaves, if it is as you describe here.If you don't like Canada, don't stay here. Go where you can live a better life, somewhere you want to call home.

If you want to stay, as I said, you have four means: 上学、技术或投资移民、政治避难、离婚后再婚。Pick one and go for it.

Good luck. -rollor(Rollor); 2006-12-9 {252} (#3368401@0)

Oh, yeah, does anyone know whether I can get a low paid job or work as volunteer without working permit? -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-8 (#3366716@0)

why would you like to do that?don't you have anyfriend in where ever you are from? get a ticket then go home! -tuantuan(油价跌破70); 2006-12-8 (#3366721@0)

A decision to go home is easy to make, but that shows I am a yes-woman and ....A yes- woman would choose to go back home, and it also means you accepted and even tolerated this abuse, I bet you're a man, would any woman here recommend me to stop flighting and go back home? I really don't think so, Another thing, I left my parents happily and I don't want them to worry about me, I am depressed, lack of help, but I am a matured woman, I can deal with my problems without troubling my parents. -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-8 {418} (#3366912@0)

Marry another one ? -gthm(愿闻其详); 2006-12-8 (#3366724@0)
结了婚就能移民啦, 开始移了你就能打工啦, 你老公还得担保你的吧, 十年, 哈. 多动动脑子, 你亏不了. -001isbetter(001-is-better); 2006-12-8 (#3366729@0)

Not really..."looking forward to find some professional help"? looking forward to some professional help or looking forward to finding some professional help...hiahiahia, try to find some bones among the eggs... -wireless_mouse(无线小滑鼠); 2006-12-8 (#3366871@0)

hahahaha, you're a grammatical savant, thanks for that, people do make mistakes sometimes. -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-8 (#3366936@0)

Anyone actually believe in her? Her English is excellent, she married a Canadian, and she can surf net, she have every thing of freedom, she can chose to do whatever (work legally). She probably is bored, so here to joke with us -barter_gta(Barter); 2006-12-10 (#3369613@0)

:o, I can't believe you actually said that, you are judging me in your own way,Why would I joke with all of you? I am probably bored, yes, but it doesn't mean i have to tell all the strangers here about my story. It doesn't do any good to me.I can surf the net, however, I have to delete all the files and websites history before he gets back in order to protect myself from any possible harm. If you don't offer me any help, fine, but don't make anyone else do, thanks! -anyonecanhelppls(panpan); 2006-12-11 {395} (#3371200@0)

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